I must admit that I don’t like living with pain but there are times we just can’t avoid it. I”m not talking about physical pain; that’s another topic for another day
I’m talking about those ongoing situations from which we absolutely cannot escape because it’s not in our power to do so. It’s out of our hands.
Those are tough times because we so want the situation to get better. Knowing we are going to continue to deal with it for a long time is unimaginable to us. I don’t know about you but I like things to be resolved.
I hate ambiguity.
As a child, I could never be sure of anything and so I lived day by day fearfully anticipating the next explosion. While it never surprised me when it did come, because I was a child, I still hoped it wouldn’t. And it didn’t take long before my unsettled childhood led to anxiety which became a pretty permanent state-of-being for me for many years.
So even today when I’m faced with something hurtful and troubling, my first reaction is to feel anxious. Thank goodness I’ve learned to quickly identify it when it happens and take immediate steps to relieve it.
Yesterday was such a day. My husband recognized it immediately and suggested we go somewhere. He suggested Barnes and Noble. That sounded good but once we were out I mentioned Hobby Lobby and that I’d like to look around as there are usually good sales in their home goods department at this time of year. This is the time of year I bought these adorable Christmas mugs,
Then because it was so unusually warm and sunny, sitting inside just wasn’t going to cut it. So I suggested we walk in our local state park. We ended up walking for almost an hour and the fresh air and exercise was exactly what I needed. I came home refreshed and relaxed.
Today it’s dark and gloomy but I am ready to tackle my day. I found these great chairs at Hobby Lobby yesterday and am thinking about going back and buying just one to see how it looks in my kitchen. They can order more.
Isn’t it adorable?
And then I found these bowls that I’m going to hang on a wall in our sunroom.
But most importantly I will remember this:
So how do you live with a certain level of brokenness?
- If you’re a follower of Jesus, you cling to him for wisdom.
- You continue with your prayer life and Bible study time. (Although with the praying, you may find that there are times you will simply pray, “Holy Spirit, pray for me today. You know my needs and concerns. I don’t have the words.”
- You get up, make the bed, and put on your best appearance. In other words, you show up.
- You engage in some sort of physical activity.
- You do something creative. This is a must for me and I believe it is for most people. It doesn’t mean you have to be an artist or do “arty” things. It might just mean re-arranging something in a room or moving something from one room another. It might mean fixing something you’ve been putting off. What matters is that your mind is fully engaged. Do the things that bring a level of distraction. As I’ve said before and will repeat often:
Distraction is a wonderful thing.
It’s not easy knowing some situations are never going to get better. But don’t say, “It is what it is”.
Because God doesn’t.
If God had a middle name it would be “hope”.
Remember, anxiety will not kill you.
Anxiety is temporary.
Anxiety responds to a number of techniques.
God bless and I hope you have a good day.
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