For one thing, sexy is not something I ever think about. Certainly not for public viewing.
I keep “sexy” for my husband.
But if we mean confidence then yes, there are some things that boost my confidence. They are:
- Good hair-clean, and bouncy. A good hair day always makes me feel confident.
- Good shoes. I’ve had numerous foot surgeries and a good-fitting pair of shoes that actually look fashionable and don’t hurt my feet, boosts my self-esteem greatly.
- If I’m not hung-up on myself. I always feel better when I’ve helped other people, when I’ve given myself away as much as possible. In some strange way that enervates me and makes me feel more confident.
- Most importantly, I feel most confident when I’m where I should be spiritually.